What do you hear and say when you talk to yourself?Ā
Is it mostly positive? Or does it tend to be critical and judgemental?Ā
We ask because it matters. According toĀ Ā Forbes, āThe line between failure and success can come down to something as simple as self-talk.ā They went on to say, āWhat we tell ourselves, whether fact or fiction, reflects how we see ourselves in the world.ā
This idea of how we see ourselves shows up in our careers, our body, our relationships, and more.Ā
Below areĀ 18 self-talk statements you can use to change or empower the way you talk to yourself about exercise.Ā
Now, hereās an interesting and perhaps strange trick that seems to make the above self-talk statements work even better. Instead of sayin My or I, put your name in the statement as if youāre talking in the third person.Ā
For instanceā¦
If your name was John then āI am patient with my body and know how far I can push it without hurting myself.ā would become: āJohn is patient with his body and knows how far he can push it without hurting himself.ā
Itās awkward for sure. Even so, it seems to shut down the critic in your brain that doesnāt want to accept āIā statements. Give it a try,
And oh by the way, these self-talk tips arenāt just for exercise. They work on the job, in relationships, with food, and more.Ā
Weāve found the best time to use third person self talk is when youāre facing a situation where you either need to increase performance or avoid getting off track (like talking yourself into working out when you really donāt want to.)
Give these and other self-talk statements a try.